As 2 different planet, woman (Mars) and man (Venus) are different, including their way to express love. Actually, sometimes woman want their couple to be more romantic (in woman way) hehe..
If you are a man, maybe these kind of things can be considered romantic by your girl:
- saying "I love you" before she go to sleep
- holding her hand while you across the street
- giving her your sweetest smile when you meet her
- providing us with surprise! doesn't have to be a doll, jewelry, or flower, but your unpredicted presence is the most romantic thing for her^^
- celebrating valentine and your anniversary (just both of you, woman call these very special)
- accompanying her in the saddest moment of her life, just be with her without saying any words is more worth than a thousand flowers
- realizing her dissapointment to you. just because we reply "I'm okay, nothing to do with you" doesn't mean that she is fine. cuddle her and let her cry in your shoulder
- contacting her even when you're very busy with your work or when you're gathering with your boyfriends
- last but not least, listening to her stories -- even it is the most boring story ever -- will be much appreciated ;)
There are many ways to make you both keep your relationship healthy and happy! Keep showering your love everyday will make you smile brighter and shiner ^_^
xoxo
Minggu, 25 Juli 2010
Senin, 12 Juli 2010
Please don't let me go...
I know I have the tendency to make everything around me perfect. But I cannot tolerate this one: I don't want to hurt anyone I love, because it makes me miserable.
Maybe I hurt you yesterday, I am so sorry.
Maybe you don't know that I was crying and thinking about how stupid I was. But whatever happens, I think I still love you.. It's just me being so confused by everything in my life; my future or possibly our future. This is just the beginning and we're gonna make it through.
Please don't let me go...
Maybe I hurt you yesterday, I am so sorry.
Maybe you don't know that I was crying and thinking about how stupid I was. But whatever happens, I think I still love you.. It's just me being so confused by everything in my life; my future or possibly our future. This is just the beginning and we're gonna make it through.
Please don't let me go...
Rabu, 07 Juli 2010
Surat dari Papa dan Mama
(Repost dari temen, it's very touching)
Ketika aku sudah tua, bukan lagi aku yang semula. Mengertilah, bersabarlah sedikit terhadap aku.
Ketika pakaianku terciprat sup, ketika aku lupa bagaimana mengikat sepatu, ingatlah bagaimana dahulu aku mengajarmu.
Ketika aku berulang-ulang berkata-kata tentang sesuatu yang telah bosan kau dengar, bersabarlah mendengarkan, jangan memutus pembicaraanku.
Ketika kau kecil, aku selalu harus mengulang cerita yang telah beribu-ribu kali kuceritakan agar kau tidur.
Ketika aku memerlukanmu untuk memandikanku, jangan marah padaku. Ingatkah sewaktu kecil aku harus memakai segala cara untuk membujukmu mandi?
Ketika aku tak paham sedikitpun tentang tehnologi dan hal-hal baru, jangan mengejekku. Pikirkan bagaimana dahulu aku begitu sabar menjawab setiap "mengapa" darimu.
Ketika aku tak dapat berjalan, ulurkan tanganmu yang masih kuat untuk memapahku. Seperti aku memapahmu saat kau belajar berjalan waktu masih kecil.
Ketika aku seketika melupakan pembicaraan kita, berilah aku waktu untuk mengingat. Sebenarnya bagiku, apa yang dibicarakan tidaklah penting, asalkan kau disamping mendengarkan, aku sudah sangat puas.
Ketika kau memandang aku yang mulai menua, janganlah berduka. Mengertilah aku, dukung aku, seperti aku menghadapimu ketika kamu mulai belajar menjalani kehidupan. Waktu itu aku memberi petunjuk bagaimana menjalani kehidupan ini, sekarang temani aku menjalankan sisa hidupku.
Beri aku cintamu dan kesabaran, aku akan memberikan senyum penuh rasa syukur, dalam senyum ini terdapat cintaku yang tak terhingga untukmu.
From dad & mom
Ketika aku sudah tua, bukan lagi aku yang semula. Mengertilah, bersabarlah sedikit terhadap aku.
Ketika pakaianku terciprat sup, ketika aku lupa bagaimana mengikat sepatu, ingatlah bagaimana dahulu aku mengajarmu.
Ketika aku berulang-ulang berkata-kata tentang sesuatu yang telah bosan kau dengar, bersabarlah mendengarkan, jangan memutus pembicaraanku.
Ketika kau kecil, aku selalu harus mengulang cerita yang telah beribu-ribu kali kuceritakan agar kau tidur.
Ketika aku memerlukanmu untuk memandikanku, jangan marah padaku. Ingatkah sewaktu kecil aku harus memakai segala cara untuk membujukmu mandi?
Ketika aku tak paham sedikitpun tentang tehnologi dan hal-hal baru, jangan mengejekku. Pikirkan bagaimana dahulu aku begitu sabar menjawab setiap "mengapa" darimu.
Ketika aku tak dapat berjalan, ulurkan tanganmu yang masih kuat untuk memapahku. Seperti aku memapahmu saat kau belajar berjalan waktu masih kecil.
Ketika aku seketika melupakan pembicaraan kita, berilah aku waktu untuk mengingat. Sebenarnya bagiku, apa yang dibicarakan tidaklah penting, asalkan kau disamping mendengarkan, aku sudah sangat puas.
Ketika kau memandang aku yang mulai menua, janganlah berduka. Mengertilah aku, dukung aku, seperti aku menghadapimu ketika kamu mulai belajar menjalani kehidupan. Waktu itu aku memberi petunjuk bagaimana menjalani kehidupan ini, sekarang temani aku menjalankan sisa hidupku.
Beri aku cintamu dan kesabaran, aku akan memberikan senyum penuh rasa syukur, dalam senyum ini terdapat cintaku yang tak terhingga untukmu.
From dad & mom
Minggu, 04 Juli 2010
OMG, I had EMG =__=
Last Saturday, I had this thing called EMG (Electromyography) in Sumber Waras Hospital. When I got there with my dad, we got confused to find where the EMG area is, because there are many corridors in this hospital. This was my second or third time to be there (so was my dad), and it’s still creepy with all the old buildings and architecture. Fortunately we came there in the morning *LOL* and it’s still bright enough to wander. After about 10 minutes, finally we found the place where we headed. Then there was the machine called EMG!! I don’t know exactly what this is, but I know that we use it to examine our nerves :)
I came here coz my physician told me to. I’ve been into chronic fatigue lately, feeling very exhausted in my body especially around the neck and shoulders. Moreover, headache came easily whenever I got stressed and I also had this tingling sensation in my feet quite often.
Back to the machine, it’s a very simple box with wires that are attached to our hands. It looks like Electrocardiography if you have ever heard of it (to check your heartbeat). First, I was asked to lie down on the bed then the nurse checked my tension. Normal. After that, she attached the wires I talked about in my right hand with a bandage. My upper right arm was bound by the equipment to check blood tension, so the blood couldn’t flow through my arm to the palm. I needed to wait for 10 minutes, and I felt the tingling sensation in my right hand during that (as there was no blood there :p). The nurse unbound my upper arm, and I felt the blood flowed in my arm (it’s hot like burning inside, but didn’t hurt). The next thing I told to do was inhale very deeply from my nose and exhale from mouth in 3 minutes. I couldn’t feel my right arm, it felt numb but the nurse said that it was normal. At last, it was over and she pulled the wires from my hand ^^ Waiting for about 2 minutes, my right arm was normal again. The procedure is not painful at all :p But the bad thing about having blood test, EMG, or such tests, is the result. I was diagnosed to have spasmophilia. My physician said that this disease was quite common in children or teens, but I never heard of it =__= It’s not a fatal disease either, but it’s caused by the lack of calcium. I drink a glass of milk everyday since my childhood, how come I have calcium deficiency? @_@
Well, the treatment is just taking calcium tablet everyday (a tablet contain calcium equal with 5 glasses of milk) and 2 other kinds of medicine to eliminate fatigue. I’m in medication right now and hope to get well soon. My message is, preventing is much better than curing!! Start to live healthily and enjoy your lives to get rid of stress ^_^
I came here coz my physician told me to. I’ve been into chronic fatigue lately, feeling very exhausted in my body especially around the neck and shoulders. Moreover, headache came easily whenever I got stressed and I also had this tingling sensation in my feet quite often.
Back to the machine, it’s a very simple box with wires that are attached to our hands. It looks like Electrocardiography if you have ever heard of it (to check your heartbeat). First, I was asked to lie down on the bed then the nurse checked my tension. Normal. After that, she attached the wires I talked about in my right hand with a bandage. My upper right arm was bound by the equipment to check blood tension, so the blood couldn’t flow through my arm to the palm. I needed to wait for 10 minutes, and I felt the tingling sensation in my right hand during that (as there was no blood there :p). The nurse unbound my upper arm, and I felt the blood flowed in my arm (it’s hot like burning inside, but didn’t hurt). The next thing I told to do was inhale very deeply from my nose and exhale from mouth in 3 minutes. I couldn’t feel my right arm, it felt numb but the nurse said that it was normal. At last, it was over and she pulled the wires from my hand ^^ Waiting for about 2 minutes, my right arm was normal again. The procedure is not painful at all :p But the bad thing about having blood test, EMG, or such tests, is the result. I was diagnosed to have spasmophilia. My physician said that this disease was quite common in children or teens, but I never heard of it =__= It’s not a fatal disease either, but it’s caused by the lack of calcium. I drink a glass of milk everyday since my childhood, how come I have calcium deficiency? @_@
Well, the treatment is just taking calcium tablet everyday (a tablet contain calcium equal with 5 glasses of milk) and 2 other kinds of medicine to eliminate fatigue. I’m in medication right now and hope to get well soon. My message is, preventing is much better than curing!! Start to live healthily and enjoy your lives to get rid of stress ^_^
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